THE NEW COTTON IS SILK

Spouses, can we talk? The wives this time. My grandmother was a fan of cotton material. (Stay with me now as I paint a marriage solution for you). A long, long, time ago, my grandmother literally picked cotton. Cotton was the miracle fabric because it keep things cool. Most of us know that, right?

If you answered yes, then I would like you to mentally prepare an answer to my next question (if this next scenario pertains to you)...

If wives know cotton keeps you cool, how is it possible to make it a rule to wear cotton undergarments, while complaining that their love life with their spouse is say, "lukewarm"? Do you see the connection here? So how do you turn up the heat?

Let's begin by taking the seemingly rational approach. Get rid of the cool, cotton undergarments and switch to something "hot", like silk, satin, or nylon. Now this may be a real eye-opener for this first post of this blog - but I am here to tell you to please follow this blog as the comments only get better!!

One of my antecdotes for a "he's not interested in me anymore", is to switch your undergarments and your pajamas. Now don't be silly and just think you can throw out your underwear. There is a process to be followed. Check this out:

First, you must identify which underwear you'll toss. It is critical you do this in the presence of your spouse. And don't toss them out just yet because here's the most important part: your spouse needs to see you throw out the underwear. Be creative. Discard the older underwear on top of the trash without closing the bag; put the old undies in a pile outside by his work bench - "Honey, can we use these for shop rags?"; drop them next to his shoes in the closet.

When he sees the discarded cotton underwear, he knows they won't be coming back. Now his mind is racing wondering what will you be wearing. Or he's thinking what color and style of the new silkies will you be going to buy.

Let's talk about buying. Although you are going to buy your new silkies, it's very likely your spouse will be the one digging in his pocket to fund this whole new venture. And a venture it is. So enjoy it because chances are he's enjoying it already.

By the way, I know plenty of women who have experienced a positive change in their relationship by following this tip. This is truly a nugget of wisdom for you.